It's not the big acts of forgiveness that usually make a difference in anybody's life because those are quite rare. But it's the day by day little things that get stuck in your heart and mind and you find it hard to just let go, those are the ones that actually spoil your hapiness. So learning to forget and forgive those little small and "unconsequential" things that happen day by day, hour by hour, make a huge difference in the long run to your hapiness and freedom.
Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes.
(Song of Solomon 2:15)
